Pehea e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai i nā keiki e hoʻonohonoho i kā lākou mea pāʻani?

ʻAʻole maopopo i nā keiki nā mea kūpono, a nā mea pono ʻole e hana. Pono nā mākua e aʻo iā lākou i kekahi mau manaʻo pololei i ka wā nui o kā lākou keiki. E kiola aku nā keiki he nui i ka papahele i ka wā e pāʻani ai i nā mea pāʻani, a ʻo ka hope e kōkua nā mākua iā lākouhoʻonohonoho i kēia mau mea pāʻani, akā 'aʻole maopopo i nā keiki he hewa loa nā pāʻani hāʻule. Akā Pehea e aʻo ai i nā keiki e hoʻonohonoho i kā lākou mau mea pāʻani ponoʻī ma hope o ka pāʻani ʻana i nā mea pāʻani? Ma ka laulaha, hoʻokahi a ʻekolu paha mau makahiki kahi makahiki gula o ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ke ola. Hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia kekahi ʻike i ke ola e like me nā mea aʻo. ʻO ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā mea pāʻani kekahi o nā wahi aʻo maikaʻi loa.

Pono e ʻike nā mākua i kēlā loaʻa i nā hāmeʻa ʻokoʻa nā ʻano mālama. ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu ke kau ʻana i kāu mea pāʻani āpau i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka manaʻo o ka hoʻopau pono ʻana. E like me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana o ka poʻe i nā koina o nā mea pāʻani,nā mea pāʻani hou hou aku ua komo i ka mākeke. Nā hale pēpē lāʻau, mea pāʻani ʻauʻau ea, abako o nā keiki lāʻau, a pēlā aku nā mea pāʻani like ʻolemakemake nā keiki. E hoʻopiha ʻia nā lumi o kēlā me kēia keiki i nā mea pāʻani like ʻole, kahi e hana ai nā keiki i kahi manaʻo hewa. ʻO ka mea mua, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻolei i nā mea pāʻani ma nā wahi āpau, a hiki iā lākou ke kiʻi i kekahi mea a lākou e makemake ai. I kēia manawa, pono e hoʻokuʻu i nā keiki i nā mea pāʻani i hiki iā lākou ke ʻike ua kūʻai lākou i nā mea pāʻani he nui, a ʻaʻole e pāʻani pinepine ʻia kēia mau mea pāʻani. I ka manawa like, i nā maka o nā keiki, paʻakikī loa ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā mea pāʻani, no laila pono nā mākua e aʻo iā lākou, a alakaʻi iā lākou i kahi ala i hoʻolālā ʻia.

Hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻomākaukau i nā pahu waihona waihona maʻalahi e waiho ai i nā mea pāʻani e huli pinepine ʻia e nā keiki, a laila e hoʻopili nā keiki i nā kiʻi lepili nani i nā mea pāʻani. Inā ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi keiki i loko o ka ʻohana, hiki iā ia ke hoʻohana iā ia ma ke ʻano he mahele o ka hana a me ke alu like ʻana, i hōʻalo i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa kūpono ʻole.

Maliʻa paha ua manaʻo nui nā mākua i ka hana maʻalahi e hoʻopau i ke ʻano hoʻopau, ʻo ia hoʻi, E hoʻāʻo e kūʻai ʻole i nā mea pāʻani me ka nui a i ʻole ke ʻano kūlike ʻole. Akā makemake nui nā keiki e loaʻahe hale pēpē lāʻau nui a i ʻole he mea pāʻani ala kaʻaahi nui. Inā ʻae ʻia nā kūlana, hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻokō pono i nā makemake o nā keiki, a laila kau i kēia mea pāʻani i kahi pahu.

I mea e hou ai nā mea pāʻani, e ʻae paha nā mākua i nā keiki e hoʻonohonoho a hōʻuluʻulu iā lākou i ka home a hoʻololi iā lākou i kēlā me kēia ʻelua pule. E ʻike ʻoe ma o kēia hoʻonohonoho ʻana, hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia ka nānā ʻana o nā keiki i nā mea pāʻani. Me nā mea liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi, e maʻalahi ia no nā keiki e hoʻomaʻemaʻe iā lākou iho. Inā hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻonui i nā lula oke pāʻani nei me nā mea pāʻani, e like me ke koi ʻana i nā keiki e "hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kahi mea pāʻani ma mua o ka pāʻani ʻana me kahi mea pāʻani ʻē aʻe", a laila hiki i nā keiki ke hana maʻalahi i kahi maʻamau maikaʻi o ka ʻohi ʻana i nā mea pāʻani i ka pāʻani.

He mea kōkua nui loa e hoʻomohala i kahi manaʻo hoʻopili pahu liʻiliʻi maikaʻi no nā keiki. Inā makemake ʻoe i ka ʻike hou aku, hiki iā ʻoe ke kipa i kā mākou pūnaewele.