Ma mua o ke komo ʻana i ke kula e aʻo i ka ʻike, ʻaʻole aʻo ka hapa nui o nā keiki i kaʻana like. ʻAʻole maopopo i nā mākua ka mea nui e aʻo ai i kā lākou keiki pehea e kaʻana ai. Inā makemake kahi keiki e kaʻana like i kāna mau mea pāʻani me kāna mau hoaaloha, e like menā ala uila kaʻaahi liʻiliʻi a mea pāʻani percussion lāʻau, a laila e aʻo mālie ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā pilikia mai ke kuanaʻike o haʻi. ʻAʻole wale ia, ke kaʻanalike ʻana i nā mea pāʻani e hoʻomaopopo hou ai nā keiki i ka leʻaleʻa o ke pāʻani ʻana me nā mea pāʻani, no ka mea, ʻoi aku ka leʻaleʻa o ka pāʻani ʻana me nā hoaaloha ma mua o ka pāʻani hoʻokahi ʻana. No laila pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke aʻo iā lākou e kaʻana like?
He aha ka wehewehe o ka kaʻana like ʻana no nā keiki?
ʻO nā keiki ma lalo o ka makahiki ʻekolu i luku ʻia e nā lālā o ko lākou ʻohana, no laila e lawe lākou ia mea no ka puni o ka honua iā lākou, ʻoiai nā mea pāʻani hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopā aku. Inā hoʻāʻo ʻoe elawe i kahi mea pāʻani kauo lāʻaumai ko lākou mau lima, e uē koke lākou a i ʻole hoʻokuʻi paha i ka poʻe. I kēia manawa, ʻaʻohe a mākou ala e noʻonoʻo ai me nā keiki, akā hiki iā mākou ke kamaʻilio me lākou me ka lohi, paipai a hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā mea, a ʻae i nā keiki e ʻae mālie i kēia manaʻo.
Ma hope o ka piha ʻana o nā makahiki he ʻekolu, hoʻomaopopo iki nā keiki i ke aʻo a ka poʻe mākua, a hiki nō hoʻi iā lākou ke hoʻomaopopo he mea mehana loa ka kaʻana like ʻana. I ke komo ʻana i ke kula mālaa, e ʻae nā kumu i nā keiki e huli e pāʻani i kekahimea pāʻani aʻo lāʻau, a aʻo aku iā lākou inā ʻaʻole i hala ka manawa i ka hoa papa aʻe, a laila e hoʻopaʻi iki ʻia lākou. Ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa lākou i ka huli a pāʻani pū ʻana ma ka home (i nā manawa he nui), hiki i nā keiki ke hoʻomaopopo i nā manaʻo o ke kaʻana like ʻana a me ke kali ʻana.
Nā mākau a me nā hana no ke aʻo ʻana i nā keiki e kaʻana like ai
ʻAʻole makemake nā keiki he nui e kaʻana like no ka mea manaʻo lākou e lilo ka manaʻo o nā mākua, a ʻaʻole paha e hoʻi hou kēia mea pāʻani like i kā lākou lima. No laila hiki iā mākou ke aʻo i nā keiki e pāʻani pū i nā mea pāʻani hui pū a haʻi iā lākou e pono lākou e hoʻopau pū i kahi pahuhopu i kēia pāʻani e loaʻa nā uku. ʻO kekahi o nānā mea pāʻani like like is mea pāʻani nane lāʻau a mea pāʻani hoʻopunipuni lāʻau. ʻAe kēia mau mea pāʻani i nā keiki e lilo i mau hoa a kaʻana like i nā pāʻani.
ʻO ka lua, mai hoʻopaʻi i nā keiki no ka makemake ʻole e kaʻana like. ʻOkoʻa loa ka noʻonoʻo o nā keiki mai ka poʻe mākua. Inā makemake ʻole lākou ekaʻana like i nā mea pāʻani me kā lākou mau hoaaloha, ʻaʻole ia he ʻano stingy. No laila, pono mākou e hoʻolohe i nā manaʻo o nā keiki, hoʻomaka mai ke kuanaʻike o kā lākou noʻonoʻo, a haʻi iā lākou e haʻi iā lākounā keu pono o ke kaʻana like ʻana i nā mea pāʻani.
Ke ʻike ka nui o nā keiki i nā mea pāʻani a haʻi, manaʻo mau lākou he leʻaleʻa ka pāʻani, a ʻāwī lākou i ka mea pāʻani. I kēia hihia, hiki iā mākou ke haʻi iā lākou e hoʻololi i kā lākou mau mea pāʻani ponoʻī me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, a hoʻonohonoho i ka manawa hoʻololi. I kekahi manawa pono ʻia kahi ʻano paʻakikī, no ka mea ʻaʻole hoʻolohe nā keiki i ke kumu. ʻO kahi laʻana, inā makemake kahi keikinā ala kaʻaahi kanaka pilikino i ka lima o nā keiki ʻē aʻe, a laila pono ʻo ia e piʻi pū me he mea pāʻani lāʻau ʻokoʻa i ka pānaʻi.
ʻO ke ala ʻoi loa e aʻo ai i ke keiki e hoʻomanawanui e hāʻawi iā ia e ʻike i kēia maikaʻi me kona mau maka ponoʻī, no laila e pono i nā mākua e kaʻanalike i ka hau kalima, nā pale, nā pāpale hou, domino holoholona lāʻau, etc. me kā lākou poʻe keiki. Ke kaʻana like ʻana i nā mea pāʻani, ʻo ka mea nui ka mea e ʻike i nā keiki i ka lawena a ko lākou mau mākua i ka hāʻawi ʻana, loaʻa, hoʻopilikia a kaʻana like ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Ka manawa Post: Jul-21-2021