He mea maikaʻi ke uku i nā keiki me nā mea pāʻani?

I mea e paipai ai i kekahi ʻano kūpono o nā keiki, nui nā mākua e uku iā lākou me nā makana like ʻole. Eia nō naʻe, pono e hoʻomaopopo ʻia ʻo ka makana ka hoʻomaikaʻi i ka hana a nā keiki, ma mua o ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe pono ʻana i nā pono o nā keiki. No laila, mai kūʻai i kahi makana maikaʻi. E hana wale kēia i nā keiki i kekahi mau mea maikaʻi no kēia mau makana i ka wā e hiki mai ana, kahi kūpono ʻole i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā waiwai kūpono no nā keiki. Wahi a kekahi mau noiʻi noiʻi, makemake mau nā keiki ma lalo o ka makahiki he ʻelima e kiʻi i mau mea pāʻani hoihoi no ka mea he pāʻani wale nō ko ka honua. Amea pāʻani lāʻaukūpono loa ma ke ʻano he makana e makana ai i nā keiki. No laila he aha nā pae hoʻohālikelike e hoʻohana ai nā keiki e hoʻokolokolo ua hana lākou i ka mea kūpono a hiki ke kiʻi i nā mea pāʻani a lākou e makemake ai?

E hoʻohana i nā kāleka kala e hoʻopaʻa i kāu hana i kēlā me kēia lā

Hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻopaʻa manawa me kā lākou keiki. Inā hana nā keiki i nā lawena kūpono i ke ao, hiki iā lākou ke kiʻi i kahi kāleka ʻōmaʻomaʻo. Ma ka ʻokoʻa, inā hana hewa lākou i kekahi lā, e loaʻa iā lākou kahi kāleka ʻulaʻula. Ma hope o hoʻokahi pule, hiki i nā mākua ke helu i ka nui o nā kāleka i loaʻa me kā lākou keiki. Inā ʻoi aku ka helu o nā kāleka ʻōmaʻomaʻo i ka helu o nā kāleka ʻulaʻula, hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa i kekahi mau makana liʻiliʻi me he makana lā. Hiki iā lākou ke kohokaʻa kaʻaahi liʻiliʻi, pāʻani i nā mokulele pāʻani pālolo a i ʻole pāʻani i nā pāha lāʻau.

Ma waho aʻe o ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kekahi ʻano hana uku ma ka home, hiki i nā kula ke hana pū i ka pilina o ka mālama ʻana me nā mākua. ʻO kahi laʻana, hiki i nā kumu ke hoʻopuka i nā pōpō makana i ka papa, a he helu ko kēlā me kēia pōpō. Inā hana maikaʻi nā keiki i ka papa a i ʻole hoʻopau i nā haʻawina home i ka manawa kūpono, hiki i ke kumu ke hāʻawi ʻimi iā lākou i nā helu ʻokoʻa o nā kinipōpō. Hiki i nā kumu ke helu i nā pōpō i loaʻa i nā keiki i kēlā me kēia mahina, a laila hāʻawi i ka manaʻo i nā mākua e pili ana i nā paukū. I kēia manawa, hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻomākaukau apēpē lāʻau liʻiliʻi a i ʻole mea pāʻani ʻauʻau, a hoʻonohonoho pū i kahi manawa e pāʻani ai me nā keiki, ka mea e kōkua i nā keiki e hana i kahi manaʻo kūpono.

Makemake ʻole kekahi mau keiki e pane i nā nīnau i ka papa no ko lākou ʻano hilahila. I kēia hihia, inā hoʻoikaika ka kumu iā lākou e pane i nā nīnau, hoʻowahāwahā paha kēia mau keiki i ke aʻo ʻana mai kēia manawa. No laila, i mea e paipai ai i kēia mau keiki e loaʻa i ko lākou mau manaʻo iho, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi ʻeke plastik i loko o ka lumi papa a waiho i nā nīnau i nīnau ʻia i ka papa i loko o ka hīnaʻi, a laila e lawe manuahi nā keiki i nā nīnau mai ka ʻeke. Kaha a hoʻihoʻi i loko o ka hīnaʻi ma hope o ke kākau ʻana i ka pane. Hiki i nā kumu ke helu ma muli o nā pane ma ka pepa a laila hāʻawi i nā keiki i kekahi mau makana waiwai e like me kekahimea pāʻani huki lāʻau liʻiliʻi a i ʻole ala kaʻaahi uila.

ʻO ka makana i nā keiki me nā makana liʻiliʻi he mea maikaʻi loa ia. Hiki i nā mākua ke aʻo i kā lākou keiki mai kēia kuanaʻike.