Nui ka huhū o nā mākua i ke noi mau ʻana o kā lākou keiki i nā mea pāʻani hou na lākou. ʻIke nō, hoʻohana wale ʻia kahi mea pāʻani no hoʻokahi pule, akā nui nā keiki i nalo ka hoihoi. Manaʻo nā mākua he loli ke ʻano o nā keiki a lilo i ka hoihoi i nā mea a puni lākou. Eia naʻe,ke hoʻololi pinepine nei i nā mea pāʻanihe ʻano kūʻē maoli ia o nā keiki i nā mea pāʻani kahiko, e hōʻike ana ʻaʻole kēia mau mea pāʻani a lākou i koho ai. ʻO kēlā maunā hāmeʻa ʻaʻohe ona ʻano aʻoa i ʻole he ʻano hoʻokahi e hoʻopau koke ʻia e ka mākeke. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē, e hōʻole koke ʻia lākou e nā keiki.
I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole ia he nani o ka pāʻani liʻiliʻi i ke keiki, akā aia kekahi pilikia me ke alakaʻi a ka makua.
Hewa o ke pāʻani ʻana me nā mea pāʻani
Manaʻo nā mākua he nui pono lākou e wehewehe pono i nā mākau pāʻani i kā lākou keiki ma mua o ka lawe ʻana i nā mea pāʻani iā lākou, a laila e ʻae lākou e pāʻani e like me nā ʻōlelo aʻo. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ma kahi o kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo palekana e pono ai, na nā keiki e hoʻoholo peheapāʻani me kahi mea pāʻani. ʻOiai alāʻau dominohiki ke hoʻohana ʻia e kūkulu i hale kākela ma kahi o ka pāʻani ʻana e like me ka mea e pono ai. ʻO kekahi onā ala kaʻaahi lāʻau maʻalahi loahiki i ke kahawai ke aʻo i ka ʻike ʻepekema. ʻO kēia mau ʻano hana keaka hou ka crystallization o ka noʻonoʻo waiwai o nā keiki. E mahalo nā mākua i kēia mau ʻano pāʻani.
ʻOi aku ka pipiʻi o kekahi mau mea pāʻani nunui a hoʻonuanu hoʻi e pāʻani wale, no laila nui ka manaʻo o nā mākua he pono ʻole ke kūʻai ʻana iā lākou. Akā mai kahi kuanaʻike ʻē aʻe, ke pāʻani wale nā keiki me nā mea pāʻani wale nō, ʻoliʻoli hapa wale nō lākou. Inā pāʻani pū nā keiki ʻelua, e pāpālua ʻia ka hauʻoli. Inā he mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa kāu poʻe keiki, no ke aha e hōʻiliʻili ʻole ai ʻoe i ke kālā me nā mākua ʻē aʻe e kūʻai aihe mea pāʻani lāʻau nuino nā keiki e aʻo e hana pū? O kahi laʻana,hale pēpē lāʻau nani, ʻano ʻokoʻa palaka hale lāʻau o nā keiki a nā kaʻa paikikala lāʻau nani hiki i nā mea hana āpau ke pāʻani pū nā keiki.
E kiola pololei kekahi mau mākua i kā lākou mau keiki i kā lākou keiki i nā mea pāʻani kahiko me he ʻōpala lā. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hōʻiliʻili kekahi mau mākua i kēia mau mea pāʻani kahiko e mālama i ke kālā a kūʻai aku iā lākou i ka poʻe hōʻiliʻili ʻōpala. Inā he makua ʻoe i ʻapo i nā manaʻo hou, e ʻike ʻoe hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i kāu poʻe keikihoʻoulu hou i nā mea pāʻani kahikoi nā ala hou. ʻO kahi laʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke noi i nā keiki e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i nā mea pāʻani kahiko a hoʻopili i nā pena non-ʻawahia hou, a e hoʻohālikelike i nā kala iā lākou iho. Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i nā keiki e hoʻohui i kekahinā mea kōkua i nā mea pāʻani kahiko, e like me ka hoʻohui ʻana i kekahi mau ala hou o ke pāʻani ʻana i ka puʻupuʻu puʻupuʻu kahiko, no laila he mea hou aku ia ma mua o kahi hana puzzle wale nō.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻonā i kēia mau pilikia āpau a i ʻole hoʻāʻo e hōʻalo iā lākou, a laila koho i kā mākou mea pāʻani. Kūlike nā mea pāʻani a pau me nā mea hoʻonani o nā keiki o kēia lā.
Ka manawa Post: Jul-21-2021